The shadchan says, “So tell me, what are you looking for?” And out comes the laundry list.
“I need someone who is extroverted, funny, and outgoing.”“I need a woman who is very frum, good, kind, and tolerant.” “I need a guy who is tall, a take-charge type, strong but not headstrong.”
And unwittingly, many people make the first mistake of the dating game. They aren’t looking for their bashert; they have already formed him in their minds, and now are out to find the person that comes the closest to that image.
It is almost like the children’s toy Mr. Potato Head. You get to design the doll, choose red lips, big ears, small eyes, short legs. . .
This is a must-listen-to Shmuz offering a practical, down-to-earth way to avoid the two most common mistakes in finding and keeping your bashert.
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